5 Very Hot Things to Do With Ice
By Lesley Rotchford
Lots of things are better on ice… oysters, margaritas, and believe it or not, sometimes even sex. Yep, as it turns out, the secret to the most mind-blowing lovin’ of your life is sitting right in your freezer. I know what you’re thinging: How can something so freakin’ cold make your sex life hotter than ever? “Touching warm skin with ice activates the branch of the nervous system that’s responsible for sexual arousal and erection,” says Kevin Strang, PhD, a physiologist at the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health. Plus, adding something unexpected into the mattress mixes up the fun factor. Start with these cool moves.
Why do guys go so gaga when women lick lollipops? Because they’re imagining what it would feel like to be that, er, sweet stick. Well, sucking on ice has the same arouse-him effect. At a bar or restaurant, take a slender ice cube entirely into your mouth. Suck on it in a casual way (like you have no idea what the hell you’re doing to him), allowing the edge of it to peek out between your lips occasionally. He’ll be yelling “check, please” in no time.
Kick-start the frisky festivities with an erotic rubdown, using a hot/cold combo of massage oil and ice cubes. Put a bit of oil in one hand (rub hands together to warm it up), and use it to knead his bare shoulders. Then take an ice cube and run it over the same area. Repeat the pleasurable process as you work your way down his back, finishing off at his butt.
The Frosty Figure Eight
While you’re giving him oral action, use an ice cube to trace a figure eight on his groin or inner thigh. Try to perform both motions at the same pace to make the experience as smooth and seamless as possible. The simultaneous opposing sensations will give him a beyond blissful buzz.
Now it’s your turn. Lie on your back and caress your most sensitive spots (the inside of your thighs, back of your neck, behind your knees, your nipples) with an ice cube. Then ask your man to lick the icy trail you just made. The cold stimulates the nerve endings and primes your body, while the follow-up warmth of his mouth provides the pleasure. Plus, he’ll love watching you stroke yourself.
Melt in Your Mouth
Wrap your lips around an ice cube for about 15 seconds until they get supercold. They head below his equator to give him an intense oral-sex experience. The exciting contrast between your cool lips and your warm mouth will shoot his senses into overdrive. Another moan-inducing method: Use a tablespoon of crushed ice instead. In your efforts to keep the ice from leaking out of your mouth, you’ll inevitably have to use more suction on his shaft, providing a delicious double whammy.
**Cold Hard Fact
If he’s getting close to climax and you need more time, hold a piece of ice for a few seconds, then touch his testicles to delay his orgasm.