Sex, Intimacy,and Passion

Go GREEN!!

2011-11-26T19:12:00.000-08:00

Go GREEN & Let the love live on! Repurpose, Recycle, Renew your sex toys. No I am not kidding, winner will be announced 1 week before Christmas so you can win yourself $50 in Free products. What you need to do is email the picture to me and I will post them on my fan page anonomously. So what will it be? Naughty Bedside Lamp, Wine Stopper, Glass Charm, Mojito Muddler, Stick Shift Cover, Fishing Tackle Lure, Pencil holder? NO CHEATING!!! I may ask for multiple pictures to confirm it was your work of art....

PLEASE EMAIL THE PICTURES TO ME AT ELEGANTPLEASUREPARTIES@GMAIL.COM and I will post them for you....Enjoy!!

Picture found on Google, not sure who to give credit too.

Mark your Territory....

2011-09-20T15:36:00.000-07:00

THE HEARTBREAKER

LOVE TAPS

Mark your territory with Evolved's Love Taps. Give a little pull back on "The Heartbreaker" and get your loved one screaming for more! Foreplay will never be the same!

Interested in getting a little naughty tonight? Love Taps are the perfect place to start! Just have your lover grab onto the handles and - SNAP! - goes the heart-shaped paddle - wherever you aim it! Whether you're into role playing or you're just up for a little bit of edge with your ecstasy, try Love Taps to add some excitement - they're irresistibly wicked!

	Length:	2.00"
	Width:	4.50"
	Weight:	1.00 oz

Classic Games Made SEXxXY

2011-09-20T15:21:00.000-07:00

Classic Games Made Sexy

My partner and I love playing games. It’s a great way to spend a few hours just being together and talking, having fun. Sometimes though the traditional games can get a little boring, so we thought a little spicing up was in order. This weekend when you’re looking for something to do, try one of these romantic renditions of favorite classic games!

Romantic Word Scrabble
Play like normal except only words that are romantic can be used. If you are questioned about the "romanticness" of the word you used, prove it’s romantic value by using it in a sentence. That part alone is half the fun!

Strip Poker
Okay, this one is a gimme, but it’s great fun! Make the stakes higher by making the chips worth kisses, romantic treats and more when they’re cashed in.

Risk
Rename the countries into body parts on the board and on the cards (so they correlate). You’ll need to be pretty detailed as there are quite a few countries. When you take over a "body part" you get to have your way with it for 5 minutes. Or, if you’d rather, you can have your partner do something to that body part on you. Make sure to set limits on what is acceptable to ask the other to do beforehand and respect those wishes so it stays fun for everyone. If you don’t want it to be too sexual, don’t name any erogenous zones.

Chess
Every time you take over a partner’s piece you are entitled to 5 minutes of a romantic "treat" of your choice. Whoever ultimately wins the game is entitled to special 2-3 hour romantic treat of their choice to be redeemed within 7 days.

Monopoly
Play the game as usual except change the payment of money into for every $100 you owe or need to pay you have to pleasure your partner for 1 minute. So, if you land on Boardwalk with all the hotels you’ll need to pleasure your partner for 20 minutes. Winner gets a special romantic treat of their choice to be given within 7 days.

Rummy
Instead of playing until whoever reaches 500 first, play for a set amount of time. An hour is usually good for us. At the end of the playing time turn every 100 points into 10 minutes of time (500 points would equal 50 minutes) your partner has to do whatever you want. It can be anything from being your servant for the night, to giving you a massage, making dinner, hand feeding you, etc. Use your imagination!

If these ideas aren’t enough for you, take a peek at some of these user-submitted ideas!

Hide and Seek!
One of our favorite games is hide & seek. It’s best to surprise your partner with the game... Turn out all the lights and leave a note by the door for him to find when he walks in the door with something like "Hide & Seek: Find me if you can!"... or turn out all the lights after she goes into the bathroom and call out, "You’ll have to search for me." (You might want to call this out and *then* find a different hiding spot. LOL For a little added twist to the game, one time I hid in the guest bedroom under the bed (I usually make my hiding spots more obvious). When my husband looked over the room and didn’t see me he went on to the other rooms. After he headed downstairs to continue the search I snuck into our bedroom. I quietly picked up the phone and called his cell phone. I said, "Hey, honey... still looking for some fun? Meet me in the bedroom." It turned an ordinary evening into a playful and sensual ..) ~Monica

Game of Love Cards
Take a deck of 52 cards. Assign each card a thing to do. For example, Aces get a kiss. Shuffle the deck and spread the cards out. You and your honey take turns drawing cards. Whatever card says to do your honey must do. Be creative with your ideas! Have fun! ~Anonymous

Another Game Of Love Cards
You can play cards game with your loved one, buy one box of cards (ordinary playing cards), when both are ready to sleep suggest that you play them. Here are the rules: 1. When one wins the other one has to take off his clothes, one per win until you are both naked then... Try it is fun. ~Sandra

The Alphabet Game
One person starts with the letter "A" and has to kiss a body part on the other person beginning with that letter. The other person starts with "B" and so on and so on. Some of those letters get awfully tricky, but you will be amused by what your lover will think of for a letter. It’s very fun, and by the time you get to "Z" (if you do) you just might want to play again. ~Jennifer

Sexual Shoots And Ladders
Remember the old game of shoots and ladders? Make a board piece exactly like it and fill in the blanks with your own ideas. (sexual favors) You’ll find your mate very aroused after a round of this game!!! ~Anonymous

Hide & Go Seek
Anywhere with big shelves is good for this (even the supermarket!) Shop with your person for a little while, and as they look at a particular item, say, "I bet you can’t find me!" and dart over and enter another aisle. You can keep this up as long as you want. My boyfriend and I do this all the time at the bookstore and if nothing else it introduces a bit of friendly competition into the game. It sounds stupid, but try it- you’ll like it! ~AntiSeptic

Play Othello with kissing rules!
Suggest playing the game Othello. Halfway through suggest making it a little more interesting. For the number of tokens they flip over they get to kiss you that many times where ever they wish. I don’t think we have ever finished that game! ~Anonymous

A Love Puzzle
Buy a Puzzle (about 100 pieces) and assemble it. Turn in over and write a romantic message on the back. Take it apart. Have a candle light dinner and present it to her. Let her know that there is a message waiting for her. ~Carlos R Castro

Loveopoly!
Change the game of Monopoly. Change boardwalk into back rub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc. ~Anonymous

Hide And Seek
Play hide and seek outside in the rain...its fun and very sexy. ~Andrea

Pick A Number
If you like to be silly with your love sometimes, here’s a fun thing to do: Walk up to them with a big ol’ smile on your face, and say, "pick a number between one and ten"...don’t explain why, just tell them to do it. When they make a guess at it, lean in close and whisper "Nope, you lose. Take off your clothes.
" :-) ~Barbara Tilton

Fill your purse and stop leaving money behind!

2011-09-17T20:49:00.000-07:00

Customer care is probably the most forgotten activity
not only in our business, but in the entire industry.
Customer care, or customer re-servicing, leads to:
• Additional sales
• Additional party bookings
• Additional team members
If you are not re-servicing your customers you ARE leaving money on the table.
Not re-servicing your customers leaves them with the impression that you’re not interested in them
their wants, needs and desires. If you think you’re bothering your customers or that they’ll call you
if they need something, think again. It’s time to reprogram your mind and understand that building a
relationship with your customers makes them feel like a VIP and makes you feel like a successful business
entrepreneur.
Why Re-Service?
• Re-servicing your customers helps you develop a relationship built on trust. Customers who
trust you want to do business with you again and again and recommend you to others.
• Your customer base is valuable. It is yours, you own it, you built it and you should take care of
it. Part of taking care of your customer base is re-servicing.
• Your customers already know you. They’re familiar with the products and information. They
are a warm market. Re-servicing your customers is so much easier than cold calling.
• When you do a party you have a limited number of people that can fit into one room, but when
you do re-servicing calls, your “party” is as big as you want it to be. If you want to make 20
calls it is like having a party with 20 guests.
• Re-servicing not only leads to additional sales, but also bookings and new team members.
• When you fail to re-service, you increase the chances that your client will not know how to find
you when they are interested in reordering, booking or signing up.
• By re-servicing, you develop client loyalty. In today’s market, client loyalty is priceless.

The Art of Sensual Dance for Everyone!!

2011-08-16T22:39:00.000-07:00

The Art Of Sensual Dance for Everyone!!

Learn the Moves!!

Practice the "Moves" and then use these guide's to follow a routine. You'll soon
feel confident enogh to do the dances alone! ENJOY your Sensual self!!

Remember:

:: Go slow; use your own beat & rhythm.

:: Or do all the moves to the count of 4

:: Concentrate on the TEASE!!

:: Moving slowly create's tension & tension creates Passion!!

:: There is more in what you DON'T see than what you DO!!

LOWER BODY ROUTINE

:: Walk for 4 beats,gazing at person
:: Side wiggle
:: leg extension with sensual slide (SS)
:: 4 hip rolls with hands floating in air, or on your body
:: 2 quarter-turn moves to back
:: bend over with flat back
:: hands down inner and/or outer leg
:: bring legs together
:: knee jockey with hands on derriere
:: quarter-turn to side
:: hip thrust with SS
:: coy curtsy
:: continue in your own style and/or
:: sit on partner's lap
:: leave them BREATHLESS for the next installment!!

FULL BODY ROUTINE

:: 2 head rolls
:: 1 sensual slide (SS) down neck
:: Breast squeeze with SS:: 2 hip rolls
:: coy curtsy
:: drag nails up top of legs
:: quarter-turn to side
:: hip thrust with SS
:: quarter-turn to back
:: Spread legs and bend over, flat back
:: little back and forth butt wiggle
:: gaze at partner from over the shoulder
:: knee jockey with hands on sides or derriere
:: quarter turn to side
:: self hug with neck back
:: look at person with passionate, "I'm the Goddess for you" look!
:: 1 shoulder roll playing with straps and/or caressing shoulder
:: quarter turn, back to front
:: breast squeeze leaning towards partner
:: SS down neck and cleavage
:: shimmy back and forth twice
:: leg exstension with SS
:: Continue in your own style and/or
:: sit in partner's lap...or whatever your fancy!!

WHOOooo HOoooo!!

Picture found on Google images...not sure who to give the credit too!

#UpL8 w/ @TeaganShepard: Happy Hump Day! 7/20

2011-07-20T22:25:00.000-07:00

#UpL8 w/ @TeaganShepard: Happy Hump Day! 7/20: "http://cdn.10dailythings.com/images/linux_positions.png"

About Cunnilingus

2011-07-19T00:49:00.000-07:00

About Cunnilingus

While the clitoris is the sexual hub of the universe for many women, it usually requires a bit of preparation to get aroused for digital or oral manipulation.

Teasing and gentle petting is a great way to start stimulating the clitoris. You may wish to start out gently kissing her inner thighs, and continue your explorations from there.

Licking and nibbling the other surfaces of the pussy is adored by many women. Go slowly and think fun. Since it’s hard to have a verbal conversation when you are eating pussy, you can refer to her body language, whimpers and moans, etc. for feedback.

Direct clitoral stimulation is divine for some, and others prefer indirect stimulation of the clitoris, while others enjoy having the clitoris sucked. Indirect clitoral stimulation can be achieved by stroking your tongue through the channels on either side of the clitoral hood and applying pressure to the clit through the hood.

Many women love a combination of all of these techniques, and other techniques that are uniquely yours. Afterward, ask for feedback and listen to her responses if you want to be the greatest lover in her world.

Have "Faith" and get Passionate about a cure!!.

2011-06-11T20:48:00.000-07:00

Some COCKtail recipe's that I have collected through the years!

2011-06-07T03:25:00.000-07:00

CARIBBEAN CHAMPAGNE

LIGHT RUM
BANANA LIQUEUR
750ML BOTTLE CHAMPAGNE, CHILLED

POUR 1/2 TEASPOON OF BOTH LIGHT RUM AND BANANA LIQUEUR INTO EACH
CHILLED CHAMPAGNE GLASS. FILL GLASSES WITH CHAMPAGNE AND STIR. FOR A
NON-ALCOHOLIC VERSION, SUBSTITUTE PINEAPPLE JUICE FOR CHAMPAGNE.

GET LEI'D

4 OUNCES PINEAPPLE JUICE
1/2 OUNCE CRANBERRY JUICE
3/4 OUNCE VODKA
3/4 OUNCE RASPBERRY SCHNAPPS

MIX INGREDIENTS IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. SERVE OVER ICE IN CHILLED
COCKTAIL GLASSES.

JUST PEACHY

PEACH SCHNAPPS
750-ML BOTTLE CHAMPAGNE, CHILLED

FILL EACH CHILLED CHAMPAGNE GLASS WITH ONE FOURTH PEACH SCHNAPPS AND
THREE FOURTHS CHAMPAGNE. STIR AND SERVE

PINK SWEETARTS

64 OUNCES LEMONADE MADE FROM 12 OUNCE CAN FROZEN CONCENTRATE
8 OUNCES VODKA
8 OUCES CHERRY SCHNAPPS

MAKE LEMONADE IN PITCHER. STIR IN LIQUOR. REFRIGERATE. SERVE OVER ICE
IN CHILLED COCKTAIL GLASSES.

POP THE CHERRY

4 OUNCES ORANGE JUICE
2 OUNCES CHERRY BRANDY

MIX INGREDIENTS IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. SERVE OVER ICE IN CHILLED
COCKTAIL GLASSES. GARNISH WITH A CHERRY

SEA BREEZE

46 OUNCE CAN GRAPEFRUIT JUICE
8 OUNCES VODKA
8 OUNCES CRANBERRY JUICE

MIX INGREDIENTS IN PITCHER. REFRIGERATE. SERVE OVER ICE IN CHILLED
COCKTAIL.

SHOTS:

SHOOT 'EM COWGIRL

1 OUNCE BRANDY
1 OUNCE TRIPLE SEC
1 OUNCE LIGHT RUM

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

BLOW JOB

1 1/2 OUNCE KAHLUA
1 1/2 OUNCES IRISH CREAM LIQUER
WHIPPED TOPPING

FILL SHOT GLASS WITH KAHLUA AND IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR. ADD WHIPPED
TOPPING. THE WAY YOU DRINK THIS SHOT IS PART OF ITS CHARM. PICK UP
THE SHOT GLASS WITH YOUR MOUTH, TIP YOUR HEAD BACK, AND SWALLOW.

FRENCH KISS

1 OUNCE WHITE CREME DE CACAO
1 OUNCE AMARETTO
1 OUNCE IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

HOP, SKIP AND GO NAKED

1 OUNCE ALMOND LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE MELON LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE AMARETTO
1 OUNCE OF IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

HORNY TOAD

1 OUNCE IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE TRIPLE SEC
1 OUNCE KAHLUA

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

ITALIAN STALLION

1 OUNCE ALMOND LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE WHITE CREME DE CACAO
1 OUNCE IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

JELL-O SHOTS

3 OUNCE PACKAGE GELATIN MIX (ANY FLAVOR)
VODKA
WATER

FOLLOW DIRECTIONS ON JELLO MIX, SUBSTITUING VODKA FOR COLD WATER.
POUR MIXTURE INTO DISPOSABLE CUPS. CHILL IN REFRIGERATOR TO SET.

VARIATIONS.. ..FOR UNIQUE GELATIN MOLDS, SEE THE NOVELTY SHOPS : )

LICK IT, SLAM IT, SUCK IT

TEQUILA
SALT
LIME
GOOD LOOKING GUYS NECK WHOOO HOOOOO!!

FIND A CUTE GUY. WET HIS NECK AND APPLY SALT. PUT A LIME WEDGE
BETWEEN HIS LIPS, PULP FACING OUT. LICK SALT FROMHIS NECK, SLAM
TEQUILA SHOT AND SUCK THE JUICE FROM HIS LIME WEDGE.

ONE BAD APPLE

APPLES
LEMON JUICE
3 OUNCES APPLE JUICE
2 OUNCES APPLE BRANDY
1/2 OUNCE AMARETTO
1 TABLESPOON APPLESAUCE

CORE APPLES TO FORM SMALL SHOT GLASSES. COAT INSIDE OF APPLES WITH
LEMON JUICE TO PREVENT BROWNING AND REFRIGERATE. MIX OTHER
INGREDIENTS IN BLENDER WITH ICE AND POUR INTO APPLE SHOT GLASSES.
GARNISH WIHT CINNAMON STICKS.

PANTY REMOVER

1 1/2 OUNCES SLOE GIN
1 1/2 OUNCES KAHLUA

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

SCREAMING ORGASM

1 1/2 OUNCES IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE OF VODKA
1/2 OUNCE KAHLUA
WHIPPED TOPPING

MIX FIRST THREE INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER.
STRAINM AND SERVE WITH WHIPPED TOPPING

SAFE SEX ON THE BEACH (WHERE A CONDOM)

1 OUNCE PEACH NECTAR
1 OUNCE CRANBERRY JUICE
1 OUNCE ORANGE JUICE

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

SEX ON THE BEACH

2 OUNCES CRANBERRY JUICE
3/4 OUNMCE PEACH SCHNAPPS
3/4 OUNCE VODKA
1/2 OUNCE ORANGE JUICE

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

SLIME

1 CUP WATER
3 OUNCE PACKAGE LIME JELLO
1/2 CUP MELON LIQUEUR
1/2 CUP VODKA

BOIL WATER AND ADD TO JELLO IN BOWL. STIR IN MELON LIQUEUR ND VODKA.
POUR JELLO MIX INTO DISPOSABLE CUPS. CHILL IN REFRIDGERATOR TO SET

SLIPPERY NIPPLE

1 1/2 OUNCE BUTTERSCOTCH SCHNAPPS
1 1/2 OUNCES IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR
DASH OF GRENADINE

TOP SCHNAPPS WITH IRISH CREAM LIQUEUR IN CHILLED SHOT GLASS. ADD DASH
OF GRENADINE TO CENTER.

SPIT OR SWALLOW

1 1/2 OUNCES COCONUT RUM
1 1/2 OUNCES BANANA LIQUEUR
1/2 OUNCE MILK

MIX FIRST TWO INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. TOP
WITH MILK, STRAIN ICE AND SERVE.

WHEN LIFE HANDS YOU LEMONS,MAKE SHOTS

1 1/2 ABSOLUT CITRON
1 1/2 OUNCES SWEET AND SOUR
1 SLICE OF LEMON
1/2 TEASPOON SUGAR

MIX FIRST TWO INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN
AND SERVE. DRINK SHOT, THEN SUCK LEMON SPRINKELED WIHT SUGAR. FOR A
UNIQUE SHOT GLASS, HOLLOW OUT A LEMON AND COAT THE RIM WITH SUGAR.

WILD BANANA BANSHEE

1 OUNCE BANANA LIQUEUR
1 OUNCE WHITE CREME DE CACAO
1 OUNCE CREAM

MIX INGREDIENTS OVER CRACKED ICE IN COCKTAIL SHAKER. STRAIN AND SERVE.

Girl's Night Out Drink Recipe's

A Goodnight Kiss
1. Ingredients:
4 oz Champagne
1 splash Campari
1 cube Sugar
1 drop Angostura bitters
Preparations:
Put one drop of Angostura Bitter on sugar cube and drop in flute. Add champagne and splash of Campari.
Makes 1 Love Drink.
Arise My Love
Ingredients:
champagne, chilled
1 teaspoon green creme de menthe
Preparations:
Put creme de menthe into a champagne flute. Fill with chilled champagne and serve.
Makes 1 Love Drink.

Bellini Cocktail
Ingredients:
1 each peach, peeled, pitted
2 teaspoons water
1 teaspoon superfine sugar
1/8 teaspoon fresh lemon juice, to taste
1/2 cup Champagne, to taste
Preparations:
Combine peach, water, and sugar in a blender or food processor. Process to a puree, then add lemon juice to taste and blend again. Place 1-1/2 tablespoons into each of the four champagne flutes. Then fill each with champagne and stir.
Makes 4 Love Drinks.

Chocolate Kiss
Ingredients:
1/2 ounce Creme de Cacao
1/2 ounce Frangelico liqueur
1/2 ounce vodka6 ounces vanilla ice cream
Preparations:
Combine liquor with 2 scoops of vanilla ice cream, blend with ice and garnish with chocolate sprinkles.
Makes 1 Love Drink.

Passion Peach Champagne
Ingredients:
2 champagne glasses
1 bottle champagne
1 fresh peach — peeled
Preparations:
Fill glasses with champagne to 3/4 full. Peel, seed and slice peach. Place in champagne. Serve in champagne glasses.
Makes 2 Love Drinks.

Passionate Kiss
Ingredients:
1 oz. Southern Comfort
1 oz. peach schnapps
1 oz. raspberry liqueur
Pineapple juice
Preparations:
Add first three ingredients. Fill remainder of glass with pineapple juice. Serve over ice in a highball glass.
Makes 1 Love Drink.

Summer Fling
Ingredients:
3/4 oz Blue Curacao
3/4 oz Bailey's irish cream
crushed ice
Preparations:
Layer Blue Curacao and Bailey's in a shot glass over crushed ice. Mix to drink.
Makes 1 Love Drink.

Tropical Passion
Ingredients:
1 oz. Peach Schnapps
1 oz. Rum
1 oz. Sloe Gin
1 oz. Triple Sec
1 splash Orange Juice
Preparations:
Combine all ingredients and shake with ice. Strain into highball glass.
Makes 1 Love Drink.

Affinity
1 1/2 oz. Scotch
1 oz. sweet vermouth
1 oz. dry vermouth
2 dashes orange bitters
In a mixing glass half-filled with ice cubes, combine all of the ingredients. Stir well. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Between The Sheets
1 oz. brandy
1 oz. light rum
1 oz. ounce Cointreau or triple sec
1 oz. lemon juice
In a shaker half-filled with ice cubes, combine all of the ingredients. Shake well. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Crimson Sunset
2 oz. gin
2 tsp. lemon juice
1/2 tsp. grenadine
1/2 oz. tawny port
In a shaker half-filled with ice cubes, combine the gin and lemon juice. Shake well. Strain into a cocktail glass. Drop the grenadine into the center of the drink and float the port on the top.

French Kiss
1 1/2 oz. sweet vermouth
1 1/2 oz. dry vermouth
1 lemon twist
Pour the sweet vermouth and dry vermouth into an old-fashioned glass almost filled with ice cubes. Garnish with the lemon twist.

Once-Upon-A-Time
Crushed ice
1 1/2 oz. gin
1/2 oz. apricot brandy
1/2 oz. Lillet
In a mixing glass half-filled with crushed ice, combine all of the ingredients. Stir well. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Paradise
1 1/2 oz. apricot brandy
1/2 oz. gin
1 oz. orange juice
1/2 teaspoon sweet vermouth
In a mixing glass half-filled with ice cubes, combine all of the ingredients. Stir well. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Purple Passion
2 oz. vodka
2 oz. grape juice
2 oz. grapefruit juice
2 tsp. superfine sugar
In a shaker half-filled with ice cubes, combine all of the ingredients. Shake well. Strain into a highball glass almost filled with ice cubes.

Sex On The Beach
1 oz. vodka
1 oz. peach schnapps
2 oz. orange juice
2 oz. cranberry juice
Pour all ingredients into a highball glass almost filled with ice cubes. Stir well.

Slow Comfortable Screw
1 1/2 oz. vodka
1/2 oz. sloe gin
1/2 oz. Southern Comfort
4 oz. orange juice
Pour all ingredients into a highball glass almost filled with ice cubes. Stir well.

Wedding Bell Cocktail
1 oz. Dubonnet Rouge
3/4 oz gin
2 tsp. cherry brandy
1 tbsp. Pernod
1/2 tsp. Cointreau or triple sec
In a mixing glass half-filled with ice cubes, combine all of the ingredients. Stir well. Strain into a cocktail glass.

Body Parts.......how beautiful, romantic...and sensual

2011-06-05T18:49:00.000-07:00

           As we see the picture is more then just about body parts and is more about couples. Not just about idolizing each other or each others body parts though more about enjoying each other and each others body parts. In talking about body parts, we sometimes only think of buttocks, breasts, and navels. Fingers, feet, penis's and even vagina's are body parts yet we talk so little of them and at times do not even admit we have them. The neck is one of the most pleasurable areas of the body as much as the breasts. There is something so sexy about the curve of a woman's stomach with her hips that drive men wild!!! How about a naked back....? Perhaps as have the mystery of the back while not viewing the front. The eyes are sometimes forgotten as we sometimes over shadow them with spectacles, make-up or even too much hair. Foot massages are sometimes the most tender and sexual foreplay techniques. To tease a woman's breast with the palm of ones hand is extremely erotic.
          A full body massage with a warm oil is what one could call a communion and marriage of ones hands and your lovers body unlike any other. An edible oil would even be better. As the lips and tongue can follow where the hands have just left. Body part on body part-togetherness could not be sweeter.
          The ears are another body parts that oozes sex appeal. Not just a simple whisper in the ear not just a finger tracing the ear or the neck just below though a slightly wet tongue that can make your partner scream with passion and ache crying out for more.....Legs are often glamorized by tanning salons, tanning creams, and hurtful waxing. Legs should be massaged with lotion as much as the feet. The inner thigh needs mentioning as the the sensitivity increases as your hand or tongue goes further and further. We have the lips, the tongue...body parts that not only receive pleasure yet give pleasure.
They have even developed toys for the tongue such as the Screaming O "Ling-O Vibrating Tongue Ring".
   We sometimes forget many of our body parts and they can do for us and what we can do for them....I recommend included a different body part in your love making to spice things up and to enrich your passion. While making love to your partner, make love to their body. Listen to her body....watch her body.....learning more from each other more in an hour then any one could hope to teach you in a year.

Earl F Spangler

Crossing the Line.......

2011-06-02T18:50:00.000-07:00

Crossing the line while in a relationship may feel like the right thing. It may also feel like the only thing. Morally we can say it is the wrong thing. Emotionally we may feel we even earned it or deserved it. Though honesty we have to ask ourselves if we are considering crossing the line while in a relationship are we really in a relationship?
           A lot of people are looking for things in a relationship. Things that they can only find in themselves. Others drift and crave the puppy love stage while others fear commitment. To find and understand why what we cannot find in relationships is essential to what we can find in relationships.
         We also have to understand why we want to get out of the relationships we tried so hard to get into in the first place. We all are looking for something in somebody in a relationship. When we find someone else it usually is because we are no longer getting that something or found out that person could never give what we wanted or needed in the first place.
          As we cross the line while in the relationship it usually is never about "sex".....we may use "sex" as a cover-up or as an excuse. We want the attention, the pampering, and the "me" stuff. Love Me! Show Me! What have You Done For Me! Me!, Me!, Me!.....
           We only talk about the you in healthy loving relationships that have substance and our full.         Empty relationships are only about Me!
            Empty relationships are also one sided as the Me! has given up, shut the other out or has already crossed the line and is waiting for the other to be the dominant one and end what has truly already ended. Empty relationships do not have to end in break-ups or stay empty they can be fulled with communication, passion, understanding, wild passionate sex and respect. There isn't always a need for the blame game either in solving differences and working them out. There can be just letting it be what it be or is what it is.

Are you slacking in the bedroom? Part 2

2011-06-01T21:16:00.000-07:00

Setting the mood for the evening often takes place the in the morning of... or even the day before. Everybody men and women included need to feel needed...desired.....wanted......appreciated and noticed. When you see a friend or a client or even a grocery clerk and comment on her hair, clothing or perfume you bring attention. You bring attention to her. You need to bring that attention to your mate, lover, or spouse.
          We see our mate everyday, undressed, dirty, at their best and at their worst. How many times do we comment on their appearance? On their smell, scents, touch, walk and even the sound of their voice. How often do we touch them in passing or grab a hug or a kiss.... How many times do we open the door for them.....or thank them for just being themselves.
          Do we ever offer them a towel as they step out of the shower. Ask them about their day or leave notes or tenderness on their pillow. Poetry takes no Shakespearean or Robert Frost to compose only a few words from the heart wrapped with passion.
          Perhaps eye contact with hands held and a simple "I Love You" and a short fleeting kiss before you dash for the subway. A simple flower arrangement delivered by carrier to her office with simple words like "I miss you, and the blueness of your eyes". Nothing sexual needed.....perhaps later in the evening you can graze the front of her shirt with your hand or give a hug and a squeeze of the buttocks. Perhaps each kiss lasts a little longer in the morning until morning nobody gets out of the house till lunch.
          Gifts are not what shows our love as much as people may want to believe.The $300 Coach bag your co-worker bragged about would be gladly exchanged for a candlelight dinner with no kids soft music and a couple of cans of ravoli sitting in fine china with silver spoons and rose-pedals on the table. (The sex would probably be better too).
          Scented sheets are a plus as well as fresh sheets or fine silk sheets used only on Friday nights. a back rub enhances a mood, a foot massage, warm oil is always a plus as is her favorite scented lotion or body oil. Remember as you enter the bedroom and close the door the world now only consists of you and your love.

          In the morning as you leave remember the night begins in the morning and hello's begins with good-byes. No one likes scripts or rehearsals and flattery often falls short. The heart speaks volumes and a touch is worth a thousand words. Be spontaneous, impulsive, romantic and respectful. Spontaneous in your actions, impulsive in your attentiveness, romantic in your actions and respectful to each other.

Earl F Spangler

Lessons in Sex, Intimacy,and Passion ,: Are you slacking in the bedroom? Part 1

2011-05-27T14:02:00.000-07:00

Lessons in Sex, Intimacy,and Passion ,: Are you slacking in the bedroom? Part 1: "Physical causes of Female dysfunction are caused by so many factors these days. Were tired, stressed, over-worked. There are so many of ot..."

Are you slacking in the bedroom? Part 1

2011-05-27T13:54:00.000-07:00

Physical causes of Female dysfunction are caused by so many factors these days. Were tired, stressed, over-worked. There are so many of other reasons that may cause it such as childbirth, depression, medications and as we enter the "Change of Life" things really get lost. It takes a lot more to get a woman aroused these days. Sexual dysfunction includes desire, arousal, orgasmic and sex pain disorders. You should visit your primary care to make sure there is no underlying condition.

I received a flyer and it stated that in 2004, medical estimates show about 43% of women will suffer from some sort of Sexual Dysfunction-(Journal of the American medical Association) Since I have been in this line of work, I run into all shapes, sizes and ages of women. I have heard that some have never experienced an orgasm before. I was shocked! I have worked for a few different party companies and they each have their own special sensual enhancement gels. Some of which are great and some not so great!

Elegant Pleasure Parties is using a product called "ON" this product is manufactured by Sensuva. I have never found anything like it before. Not only does it help stimulate you, but it works for almost an hour. I am talking warm, cool, electrifying, pulsating stimulation throughout your clitoris and vagina. I have found that as you start to make love, it starts to spread and stimulate the g-spot as well. I want to express that it may not be for every woman out there.

I have been a single mom most of my children's lives so stress plays a "HUGE" role! We are super stressed as women and we feel as if our job is never done. So at night, when I say we just want you to get on and get off it has nothing to do with the man in particular. It really is our way of saying something is wrong. To all the men out there, we need more then just a kiss to help us out. As you/aka the man, can easily get hard and ready to go in a blink of an eye, us woman need you to help us along and use the five senses. I have encountered woman that have never had an orgasm before! This bothers me to know that they are young, energetic woman and their man cant take a few extra minutes to help her by using a few of the following ideals below;

Touch: Make us feel alive, massage us with some light scented or warm massage oil, candle.
Smell: Put on her favorite cologne, no one wants to have someone on them that stinks
Sight: Place on those silk boxers or something sexy
Sound: Talk dirty to us but in a sensual way! Remember there is a difference between Sexual and Sensual. Read a short erotic poem
Taste: Start off with a romantic setting. Make a nice little basket for the bedroom with your favorite snacks for each of you to enjoy.

Take us away into another little world, even if its just an hour. Make it an experience that she will be longing to top.

Sexual Dysfunction is very common and what I am about to say, some may find an uncomfortable subject. In order to help bring back your sex drive, you need to stimulate (masturbate) once a day, once you start getting the sensation back and remembering how good it feels, you will want sex more often. If the reason behind you not wanting sex is because its painful, try water based lubricant, different positions also may help. Don't forget wetter is better! Woman lose their self esteem and start feeling as if there is something wrong with them. Approximately 95% of woman need clitoral stimulation and the other 5% need penetration, there is nothing wrong with masturbation. Each woman is different. Another thing you can do to help your orgasms to become stronger is to do those kegal exercises, if your not quite sure what a kegal is, all you need to do is pretend your about to pee and stop yourself, tighten up and let go, repeat this over and over and your orgasm that may be there will be more intense and to your liking! The stronger your pelvic muscles are the stronger the orgasm. Not only will this help you in the bedroom but it will help you as your bladder becomes weak. There are many different types of kegal balls that you can use, some weighted, some with strings.

If your reason behind the lack of desire is due to postmenopausal or menopause you most likely will need to see your physician. We lack the testosterone and progesterone and it could be as easy as them prescribing birth control to help....then we get into the medication. Medication is always tricky, I suffer from this one myself. My suggestions are still firm on what I listed above, our partner must take the time to help us along.

There are so many products out there that can help enhance your relationship and help you discover the inner diva, start today and remember it only is ONE orgasm away from a wonderful bedroom experience!

Your Dundalk Diva
Owner/President of Elegant Pleasure Parties
Susan Compton

Baltimore's First Coed Romance Based Business www.elegantpleasureparties.com

The Princess and her King

2011-03-04T13:14:00.000-08:00

Setting the mood can be the maker or the breaker regarding a night of fun. A lot of times as men or women we only think about how we feel, how we want to be treated, loved, pampered, desired and idolized. Many of us would like to be treated like a princess. Some like to behave like pigs and rogues. Being a rouge or a pig to someone who likes being like a princess will not set a good mood. Nor will there be a lot of romance going on either.
          A lot of times as we socialize we wonder how a beautiful women is with a guy who to us may seem like a pathetic loser. We may not realize that this beautiful woman may have been with a Conan the Barbarian who beat her and treated her like a pig. He cleaned up well though treated her worse then the dirt he knocked off his shoes. She may have just gone though a horrible experience and there Mr. Pathetic was. Perhaps he lifted her dress or caught her pearled hat before the wind took it away or it got dragged through the mud. Perhaps he never lets her open her own door, pump her own gas, or even wash a single dish.
          Hmmmm....maybe he treats her like the princess she wanted to be since she a little girl. He writes her love ballads that makes her cry like no other could even imagine. Is it possible that he might carry her into the bedroom and lets her sleep on nothing but perfumed silk sheets. Perhaps he makes love to her every night undressing her like she has never been undressed before. Perhaps his idea of romance and love is what most only read about in romance novels.
          He may only pump gas at the local Shell station and have only a 5th grade education. He may slur his words or stutter. He may walk with a limp and have warts that glow in the dark.
          He is her king though and she is his princess. She cares not of how many muscles or how well his tan glows or even how tall.She cares not that he is bald or has a twitch. She cares only that as he looks into her eyes she sees love, passion, tenderness, and amazement. Love that he has only for her. Passion he has not for her body: Breasts, buttocks, legs, hair; though for her heart. Tenderness as he cares for her and makes her happiness his pleasure and joy. She senses his amazement that she loves hims as much as her amazement that he loves her.
A lot of times we wonder why the King loves his princess and why the Princess loves her king. And sometimes the princess in traveling apart wonders how she could ever live without him.
Setting the mood for the king is quite easy. As it is for the princess. As they are both setting the mood long before the sun sets. He kisses her in the morning and admires her as she dresses. She brings him coffee with a kiss. He never lets her go without expressing his love, grabbing a hug, or kissing her delicate lips. He feels nothing comes between him and his princess even time. He wastes more then the five minutes needed to embrace his princess waiting in line at the ferry or toll booth. She looks forward to their 5 minute call at lunch. They makes plans to meet for dinner and dancing like starlit lovers at least once a week. They massage each other oil not just for for-play though sometimes just to touch. He writes her poetry not to win a heart already won though to express his thoughts. She does things for him out of love not because of love. He loved her heart before he saw her body. he does not wait for birthdays or anniversary to pledge his love. He pledges it daily. She writes him love notes and forget me not's.......She waits for him as he walks in the door. She does for him and loves him daily. There is no setting of a mood as the mood is already set.
Earl F Spangler 2011

Top 10 Reasons to Spice up your Love Life.....

2011-02-15T17:22:00.000-08:00

Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth.

Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes, and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.

Lovemaking can burn those calories. you piled on during the romantic dinner.

Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones just about every muscle in the body, and you don’t need to buy special sneakers.

Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.

The more sex you have the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy.

Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. It is 10 times more effective than valium.

Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.

Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay, preventing plaque build-up.

A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

Is your wish list larger than your budget? Host a party! Ask me about my special bar parties. This is the easiest and most economical way to host a party. You don’t have to clean your house, spend tons of money on food, or figure out where to send the kids. Invite your girlfriends to meet you at the bar and receive all the same benefits as hosting in your home.

HURT SO GOOD……HOW TO AVOID THE OUCH

2011-01-28T17:21:00.000-08:00

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Not a lot of people truly enjoy pain. And it can really kill the mood. It might turn someone off to anal pleasure for the rest of their life. So, it’s important to take steps to eliminate the pain. Honestly, if anal sex hurts….

Someone Is Doing Something Wrong!!

It is important to know the difference. Some guys might like to brag that their partner can’t take their unit due to the pain. It is like a badge of honor…..because only a big giant penis would cause pain right? Yes and no, the answer is complicated. Or women will comment that they cannot take a penis in the butt because their butthole is extra small.

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Seriously??

The worst pain is the outside pain. This is the pain that is typically associated with anal sex-where your butthole lips are. This is the damage that takes the longest to heal and is absolutely excruciating. It usually ends up with butthole being bruised, throbbing, small tears, and rips. So be careful. This is the pain that most people associate with anal sex. Outside pain can occur from a number of reasons, but the most common is that the butt is not relaxed or the dick is too thick. Most of the time, outside pain comes from a man (penetrator) that is not really experienced and does not know what he is doing.

Sometimes outside pain csn be caused when a guys penis is too small.

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Because during the thrusting-retracting motion, a small-dicked guy usually pulls all the way out and thrusts back in. This can be incredible annoying- like your butthole is being bitten by a mosquito. There are a lot of things that you can do to avoid outside pain.

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#1 tip is to relax and to be turned on. You are more likely to be turned on if your partner is doing things that turn you on.

Here are a few other tips to avoid outside pain;

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1. Find a Great Lube: Thick and viscous lubricants work best and tend to stick to the condom. Silicone lubes are great because they do not get sticky and are super slippery. A combination of lubricants is fine. Experiment and find what works best for you.

Go to a Barber: Okay –this might be an exaggeration……..but seriously, hairs around the anal area are common (in both men and woman). If there is a lot of hair around the butthole, it can interfere with how easily a penis can glide in and out. Talking to a few people, they said they were having painful entry problems and after they clipped the hair on their butthole, entry improved dramatically. Who would have known? Be careful how you do this you would not want to cut yourself. And as a side note they do have professionals who not only cut the hair and trim beards though also pubic regions and also do waxing if you prefer that option.

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G Get a New Condom: Believe it or not, not all condoms are created equal. Some are thicker than others. Play around until you find one that is right for you.

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It It is also possible to have a bad egg (so to speak) Sometimes…Everything is right, the lube is right, you are relaxed, the penis is hard, not too much hair……But it is just not sliding in. Maybe your condom is dragging. Throw it away and get a new one.

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P Position: Position is everything. See the enclosed article about recommend positioning for beginners. Remember – the right position is the one that you feel most relaxed and comfortable.

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There are many things to do that helps someone receive anal sex without pain. There are also things that the guy can (and should) do. For example, the penetrator should not try to thrust his way inside you. Once he initially get the head in, the tendency for a lot of guys is to start the thrust, retract, thrust, and retract motion. This is incredible frustrating.

Once you get the head in, keep the motion forward. Do not pull back. Keep moving forward until the person receiving tells you to stop. Once they get use to it-then you can start the pull back and the thrusting.

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We have talked about many tips for receiving anal sex-but what can you do if your partner is REALLY BIG?

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The solution-get a starter penis; buy a small little dildo that will help open you up in advance. This is actually a great technique regardless of how big/small a man’s dick is if you are trying to receive a penis with no warm up.

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How to Flatter her Figure, Pick Colors and more…..Espiral Lingerie

2011-01-27T19:50:00.000-08:00

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Chocolate makes you fat, flowers die and great jewelry is a strain on the budget. Lingerie on the other hand, is the gift that truly keeps on giving.

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PURE FLATTERY

Not every woman feels comfortable baring her bottom in a sexy thong. Help her put some thought into what body parts she feels most comfortable with and choose lingerie to complement.

A Few Ideas:

-Play Up Good Cleavage with a Halter or Bustier Style.

-Display Toned Arms with a Camisole.

-Show off Nice Legs in something Short like a Baby Doll or Short Chemise.

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HAVE FUN

Get her in touch with her with her inner child by choosing fun prints like cherries or clouds. Or appeal to her wilder side: animal prints, lace, or bold colors like red are perfect.

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COLORS

Black, red and white (or off-white) looks good on almost everyone. Blondes look great in pastels, and brunettes can carry off stronger colors like purple and emerald green. Redheads do best with greens, blues, and earthly tones.

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GET COMFY

Casual, updated intimates come in styles like tank tops, bikinis and p.j.s. Look for cotton, flannel or other naturally cozy fabrics.

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SIZES

The best way to find her correct size is to ask. Allow your party guests to try on your samples to see which styles and sizes complement them.

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PRESENTATION

Don’t forget to wrap the lingerie with beautiful paper and lots of lush tissue paper. You can get creative and make bags or baskets with related items, like a book of poetry, a bottle of champagne or our great-smelling body products and candle.

KEY STYLES

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-Chemise- A strait gown that skims the body.

-Negligee- A loose, usually sheer, gown. Peignoir set-Negligee that includes a matching sheer robe.

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-Babydoll- A short gown that fits around the bust, flares toward hemline.

-Pajamas- Pants and top, originally styled after men’s p.j.s.

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-Bustier- A usually strapless elongated bra that provides extra lift to the breasts.

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Camisole- A sleeveless top that can be paired with matching undies or worn under a jacket for work.

Teddy- A one-piece style, similar to a bodysuit.

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-Tap Pants- Soft, very short version of boxing shorts.

-Thong- Provides coverage in the front of the panty with a thin strap in the back.

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WHAT DOES THE COLOR OF YOUR LINGERIE SAY ABOUT YOU......Featuring Dream Girl Lingerie

2011-01-25T13:31:00.000-08:00

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Luckily lingerie comes in a huge range of colors this season and the choice available for us ladies is fantastic-basically we are going to be spoilt for choice. The color of your lingerie speaks volumes about the person wearing it. Take a look…

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RED-Diligent, appreciative, resolute and receiving

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ORANGE-tender, brave, liberal, lavish, and unselfish

YELLOW-incisive, fair, sharp, honest, and unprejudiced

BLUE-peaceful, faithful, virtuous, reflective and sacred

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INDIGO-organized, optimistic, pure, discerning and compliant

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PURPLE-artistic, mystic, boundless, noble, and altruistic

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BLACK-creative, idealistic, hidden wealth and strong

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WHITE-truthful, benevolent, and unspoiled

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GREY-sane, authentic, Spartan and reputable

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Silver-revealing, impartial, astute and contemplative

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GOLD-enlightened, abundant, mature, and achieving

Remember- women come in all different shapes and sizes. No matter which color lingerie you choose- maybe a color which you love, or you think reflects your personality, a women must be comfortable in whatever she chooses.

Pool Parties, Hot Tub Parties, Patio Parties, and so many more……

2011-01-24T00:44:00.000-08:00

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One aspect of writing is you learn more about your subject then you would have learned otherwise. The same thing goes in about having a party or looking for fun. We sometimes have to force feed the information or often we have to skip the latter and just fall in.

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Never do we have the information or ideas just slap us in the face. Many people talk about having fun and others just seem to do it. With each of us wondering how can they do it? Sometimes we need a reason to party; other times a place to party, and others just want to have a different kind of party and needs some new ideas.And new ideas is what we have here today.

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Summertime Parties are fun as well as Pool Parties, Deck Parties, Hot Tub Parties, Patio Parties, and Vacation Parties; Spa Parties, Jumping June Parties, Fireworks Parties on July 4^th and New Year Eve are a favorite for many. Big”O” Parties are even well as they can be sponsored by “Screaming O Products. In the Adult Novelty industry we especially like “Kids Break Party” meaning a break away from the children is a party by itself.

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Anal-ogy August parties with anal products featured and described. Summer’s last Bash Party….Hot Nights Party, Ambitious August Parties for those people who have lacked the nerve to ask questions and for consultants who were reluctant to introduced fetish products not in the mainstream. Sexy September Parties, Sex-tastic Parties, Succulent parties, Snatch a September Deal Party, Fall Fantastic Party, Fall Fetish Party, and Fall In Love Parties. Orgasmic Parties, National Orgasm Parties (Officially in October), Halloween Parties, Masquerade Parties, Costume Parties, Tricks and Treats Parties, Bobbing For Bobs Parties (Battery operated Boyfriends), Tricks N Dicks Parties, or even a Pumpkin Carving Party.

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Explorative Parties, Discover parties, Naughty November Parties, Charity Parties,, Holiday Shopping Parties, Gift basket Parties, Fireplace or Bonfire Parties. Ski-bunny Parties, Manly Monday Parties, Magical Monday Parties, Monday Madness Parties, Manic Monday Parties, Multiple Orgasm Parties, Moaning Parties, Masturbation Monday parties, Monday Night Football Parties, Tackle me Tuesday parties, Taco Tuesday, Tease me Tuesday, Tickle Me Fancy, Tea Party, Try Something Tuesday Parties, Touch me Tuesdays, and Tantalizing Parties.

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For Wednesday parties we have some old favorites and some new ones. Some have mentioned Wanted Wednesdays, Waterproof Wednesday, Hump Day Parties, Wacky Wednesday, Wicked Wednesday, Weenie Wednesday, whip it Wednesday and even Wow Me Wednesday Parties. Thursday parties are “Taste Me”, “Thrill Me”, and “Thirsty”.

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Fridays are often “Freaky”, “Fiesta”, “Foreplay”, and “Frisky”. Saturdays can be “Sexy”, “Sensational”, “Sexual”, “Sinful”, “Spicy”, “Spoil Me” and even “Seduce Me”.

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Selecting the Best Styles…..Featuring: Pleaser Shoes and Pleasure Wigs

2011-01-22T12:02:00.000-08:00

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Selecting the Best Styles…..

As we enter the world of fashion we wonder where it all began. Some of us enter the world of fashion thru dresses, scarf’s, lingerie, shoes and even some feel worthless without the proper hat. As many today gauge our wealth at the job we have, the car we drive, or even the house we live in.

At times throughout our lives we change what we need or what we feel we need to be felt as attractive, important or even alive.

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In our society many times we need to dress up. We need to dress up in our lingerie, in our hair, our scent, our feet and sometimes even more………

Elegant Pleasure Parties retail not just the lotions, perfumes, toys, lingerie, shoes or even fine wigs produced by X Gen Products…… We produce the Elegance. From the small manufactures to the big; from American companies like Doc Johnson to Cal Exotics, from the Adult Fun Factory in Germany to Lelo in Sweden, including Dream Girl International, Forplay- Born In Hollywood, to PleaserUsa and Ellie Shoes.

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Being able to dress does not always make you a success. You also have to able to find the dress, the shoes, the lingerie, etc……

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Remember a women’s body is individual. That is why lingerie has so many different designs. To assist you in finding your best choice, look through this simple guide for finding lingerie that covers your body you are less happy with. I would like to say that you are the most happy with. We do have to admit to each other and ourselves that there are areas we wish we could trade in.

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SMALL BREASTS

Choose high-cut bottoms to draw attention away from the breast area. Breast-emphasizing tops like push-up bras with padded cups, teddies, triangle-shaped bras (tops that tie or hook behind the neck) or baby-dolls create an illusion of curves. Try lingerie with ruffle, lace, and non sheer bras with trim. If you are thin consider wearing garters. It will highlight and define your waist.

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LARGE BREASTS

Under-wire garments or triangle-shaped bras give additional support and create cleavage. (But: Avoid any halter tops if your shoulders are wider than the hips!) Look for Spandex and Lycra stretch materials that can adjust and flatten your breasts. Choose the top with over the shoulder straps.

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LARGE BOTTOMS/HIPS

A long loose gown with a sheer top would draw the eye upward. Choose strait-cut garments. Snug Styles will only emphasize the flaws of your lower body. Darker shades on the bottom and lighter shades on top balance hip and shoulder width. Go for underwire and push-up designs. Trim detailing can add a more defined waist area. Look for high-cut bottoms – the hips or legs will seem longer. Halter tops visually widen the shoulders.

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TUMMY TROUBLES

Look for loose-fitting styles (camisoles, baby dolls) in the waist. Use jewelry to draw attention to other parts of your body. A corset can create a slimmer look. Use fancy thongs , panties, or cleavage-enhancing bras to bring eyes to more attractive areas. (Note: Vertical lines create the illusion of height. Horizontal lines give a wider look.)

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Regardless of your height or weight you can find the perfect fit! Spend time while choosing your right size and style. It is definitely worth the time.

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COLOR

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While choosing Lingerie see how lingerie colors tone with your individual hair and skin colors. Let your individual preference and taste guide you. And remember one golden rule . Wear nude lingerie under white or light colored clothes.

Thongs, Brief or Bikini.....Featuring Espiral Lingerie

2011-01-20T23:56:00.000-08:00

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As we continue with definitions of and in lingerie we meet up with types of cloths and cuts which are designed specifically for different appeals and tastes. Matte is non-glossy and even, rather than bright and shiny. A Microfiber is an extremely fine synthetic fiber that makes cloths soft, lightweight, washable, and breathable. It is just not simply a manner of cotton or polyester when it comes to woman’s lingerie.

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Minimisers are for large-breasted woman to their breasts look smaller. Net is a see thru cloth that is made of very fine threads woven together so that there are small evenly spaced holes between them. The Bikini style is a low cut panty that sits on the hip; that gives full coverage in the back and the front. Briefs are the style of panty where the top is at the waist; similar to small shorts. G-String is a panty with a small front area connected with thin, elastic string in back and around the waist leaving the buttocks exposed, suitable for wearing under trousers to avoid visible panty line. Usually larger than a thong. Tap Pants are shorts with loose fitting legs, usually going higher on the sides.

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Thongs are panties that with a thin strip of material in the back that leaves the rear end exposed. Peignoir is a dressing gown made of very thin material. It usually comes with a matching robe. Rigid material does not stretch. Satin is a smooth type of cloths that is shiny on one side and matte on the other. Seamless is a piece of clothing without seams; designed for additional comfort.

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Sheer is a very thin, delicate, transparent, or see through. Silk is a very smooth, fine cloth made from the natural fiber that is produced by a kind of moth. Slit is a narrow cut in the fabric usually made for ease of movements or sex appeal. Spandex/Lycra is a fabric that is created from elastic thread which helps a garment to stretch. Lycra is a well-known brand of spandex.

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Strapless is a garment without usual narrow bands of material over the shoulder. Teddiette is a teddy with attached garters to keep stockings from falling down. Teddy is a combination of camisole and panty with high cut legs and usually a thong in back. This Blog concludes our blogs on definitions of Lingerie……though lingerie topics will continue along with party themes and other topics.

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So You Wanna Party……

2011-01-20T14:53:00.000-08:00

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As we continue to explore toy party themes; we need to understand the reason why we party. As we live in a stressful society we need to find outlets. We need to stay out a little later sometimes and risk a little bit to feel. Playing bingo with grandma on Wednesday nights does not always burn our hearts or make us feel like dancing. We get tired of slumber parties with our sisters, we our tired of watching “Married with Children” and “7^th Heaven” or even “I Love Raymond”. Elegant Pleasure Parties Consultants unlike other toy parties include men. We call these Co-ed Parties. Some party companies will even terminate their consultants if they allow men or one slips in unnoticed. (No slumber parties here).

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We do offer “Erotic Massage Theme Parties”, with sometimes the consultant massaging one of the girls back or having a couple get involved with one massaging the other. “Get Your Buzz On” parties would be awesome with our great supply of vibrators. “Happy Hour “ parties would be a lot more fun talking about sex toys, lingerie and shoes getting toasted then at some bar on the strip. “A Housewarming Party” is an awesome way of introducing yourself or meeting new friends or even welcoming a new neighbor. “Emergency Parties’ are not just parties for your friendly doctor, nurse, dentist, or E.M.T. though for a weekend when all good plans went bad..you and a bunch of friends have little notice yet a great need to party! Throw a Emergency Party!

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Many Elegant Pleasure Parties consultants have cancelations and are ready to roar on short notice. “Wild Tarzan and Jane’s Parties” are a hit especially when you have 4 or 5 couples. Just Me –N- My Girl Parties are a new thing that works for straight or gay parties. And yes Elegant Pleasure Parties do not discriminate against single, double or triple sex orientated individuals or couples.

“Just Girls, Just Guys, or even Just Couples parties, moving on to Parties in March we have “March Madness or Setting the Mood in March” parties.

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I always like “Get Lucky Parties”. “Spring Fever” , “Cabin Fever”, and “Spring Fever” parties are often for a way to get display models or slowing moving in-stock merchandise at discount prices. April Showers and Wedding Showers are good Party themes…..as they go along with Bachelorette party themes. Anatomy themes can also be used and games that engage the different parts of the bodies as well as the different pleasure zones.

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Masturbation May! May is National Masturbation Month! Celebrate all Month long! Mothers Day Parties as well as Fathers day Parties for the guys. As we end this segment of Party themes with July and June Jollies themes and No Joke Jonny in July and June themes it is good to remember why we party. Which is to have fun, be with friends and enjoy ourselves; whether we party in the summer , spring or the fall, in the pool, on the deck, in the hot tub, around the patio, on vacation or jumping on the 4^th.

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If Condoms only had Corporate Sponsors.......

2011-01-15T13:59:00.000-08:00

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As we end the week. I choose condoms as today’s blog along with featured products of different condoms and simple cock-rings from Elegant Pleasure Parties (Http://www.elegantpleasureparties.com)

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The history of the condom is not really something talking at depth really aids us much except that condoms has been used for the last 400 years and its popularity has grown extensively since the 19^th century. For the most part as modern production has taken effect, plastic oil by product has becoming increasingly elastic and cheap to use in the production of condoms. And also by sensitivity increasing as products become thinner, better made and different rubber is no longer used. Rubber has been replaced by latex and for the partner needing more sensitivity or latex reactions or even using oil based lubricants which break down latex products we have lambskin and while lambskin does protect against pregnancy it is thought that STDS can still be transmitted through the tiny pores in the material.

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Now on with our Sponsors:

Good to the Last Drop! Maxwell House

Over 99 Billion Served McDonalds

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Just Do It Nike

Oh What A Feeling Toyota

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You Got the Right One, Baby! Diet Pepsi

Once You Pop, You can’t Stop. Pringles

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The Fresh Maker Mentos

Ten Million Strong and Growing Flintstones Vitamins

$3.00 ea.

Strong Enough for a Man, but Made for a Women, Secret

The Best Never Rest Ford

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Like A Rock Chevy

Aren’t You Glad You Use It? Don”t You Wish Everyone Did? Dial

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Betcha Can’t Have Just One Lays

We Bring Good Things to Life! General Electric

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The Quicker Picker Upper. Bounty

It Keeps Going and Going….. Energizer

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It Melts In Your Mouth, not in Your Hands M&M

Have It Your Way Burger King

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We Treat You Right Dairy Queen

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More Than Just .........."Bras" and "Panties"

2011-01-15T00:32:00.000-08:00

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As we continue to talk about Lingerie, we will be featuring Club wear from Forplay Born in Hollywood and in that we need to understand that lingerie consists of different material as well as different garments. We have our bras and panties and then we have different types of bras and panties. We also have bras and panties made of different material made for different reason and purposes. Just to help and inform I grabbed this little paragraph: (http://www.freebeautytips.org/brasize.html) on bra fitting.

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“Breasts should not fall out below the bra when raising your hands above your head. If they do try, going down a band size, the middle part of your bra that sits between your breasts should sit flat on your rib cage. If it doesn’t try, going up a cup size. The band of your bra should stay level around the circumference of your body. A band that rides up in the back means your band size is too big. The bra straps should only be 10% of the support your bra gives. If your bras straps are doing all the work, consider going down a band size. Breasts should fit comfortably into the bra cup with no overflow, double-bubble, or wrinkles in the bra fabric.”
Now on with different type of Fabrics and more types of lingerie:

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Denier is a unit of measure referring to the thickness of the fiber. The lower the number, the thinner the material.
Dressing-gown simply is a long robe to wear over nightwear.
Embroidery are designs sewn into fabric by hand or machiane.
Flutter is a panty that is elastic on top and loose on the bottom.
Fringe is a decoration consisting of a row of hanging threads or strips.
Garter is a piece of elastic with metal or plastic clasps at the end worn round the top of a stocking to prevent it from slipping down; can be removed if stockings won’t be used.
Garter Belts our articles of lingerie that consists of adjustable waistband and garter straps; used to hold up stockings.

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Lace is a very delicate fabric which has patterns of holes in it.
Latex is a stretch rubber type material.

Lining is a material attached to the inside of a garment to make it warmer and add modesty.

Long Line is a bustier that extends to the hips.

Lurex is fabric made of a metallic thread.

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As we close up and conclude for the day I wanted to add that I pick dance-wear and club wear for the reason that Elegant Pleasure Parties sells more than just toys, lingerie and shoes. We sell a lot more. It is also good to remember that lingerie serves more than one purpose. Not only can lingerie be sexy, and make us feel more secure in our bodies though also make the outer clothing such as dresses, skirts, and dance-wear look, feel and fit better.

Knowing Your Lingerie Part I (featuring Sevan 'til Midnight Lingerie)

2011-01-13T19:10:00.000-08:00

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A new element of my blogs is that we not only talk about sex, romance and fashion. We also feature products for sale by Elegant Pleasure Parties either at party events, by email or by our website http://www.elegantpleasureparties.com. I also try to talk about different areas and feature different products.

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Our main Lingerie supplier is Dream Girl Lingerie though we do sell Lingerie from several other Lingerie companies and brands. As we do our second featured brand of Lingerie keep in mind that some styles stay from season to season and other get discontinued quickly? It often depends on a number of factors including cost, style, supply, and customer demand and market conditions.

We even occur out-of-stocks quite frequently as demand is a lot higher then supply or was forecast-ed. Sizes are also something to keep in mind as lingerie is cut differently sometimes and lingerie teddy's and corsets are cut to the bust not to the waist. Other problems are women’s different shapes and figures and the fashion industry pushing more one sizes or small sized lingerie out on the public. We have some companies that sell a mixture of sizes and some that only sell small and one sized. There are a few companies that only sell XX XXX sized lingerie though they are very few and very hard to find.

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Lingerie terminology begins as we find out about different pieces of lingerie and you may even be a little surprised.
BABY DOLL which is a short sleep or lounge gown consisting of formed cups with a loose fitting skirt, sometimes comes with matching panties.

BASQUE is a combination of the bra and garter belt; sometimes worn visibly.
BODICE is the upper sleeveless part of a dress that covers the breasts.

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DEMI CUP BRA a bra that reveals the upper portion of the breasts and exposes the nipple; gives great support; are also known as Shelf Cups.
HALF CUP BRA is half of the breasts and the nipples are covered.

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PUSH UP BRA are cups t designed to add bust and give a more attractive cleavage; contain a special kind of padding, which can be removed.
SILICONE CUP DRIVE is cups that contain silicone padding instead of fiber padding.

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MULTIWAY BRA is a bra that can be worn with or without straps or halter-necks tops. The
UNDERWIRED BRA is with a thin wire sewn into the lower portion of the cups for additional support; especially suitable for larger breasted women. The
Bustier is a bra that stretches to the waist; looks like a strapless top. Have garters at the bottom.
Camisole is a short loose fitting top that ends at the waistline and is sometimes worn visibly under an open jacket or wool clothes to protect the skin.

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CHEMISE is a strait-hanging short sleep or lounge gown with thin straps on the shoulders.
CHIFFON is a kind of very thin silk or nylon cloth.

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CORSET is a stiff piece of underwear designed to make women look slimmer by pulling in the waist and lifting the breasts; lacing at the back makes the corset adjustable. Have garters for stockings.
CROP TOP is a very short top that stretches just below the breasts.

Some More Party Themes from Elegant Pleasure Parties

2011-01-12T13:39:00.000-08:00

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More Party Themes………

As parties go it is just a manner of gathering a group of people. Elegant Pleasure parties are not much different except in that they offer games, displays, explanations and tastes test of various cremes, powers and lotions that evolve around romance and erotic themes. Sometimes though the girls at the party want to add a little extra spice; and while bachelorette, co-ed and dance pole parties are some of the most popular there are a couple hundred others. In this blog we’ll see how many we can run through while featuring many of the party items that Elegant Pleasure Parties sell. (http://www.elegantpleasureparties.com)

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“Passion-Fashion” is our first is very important one in that Elegant Pleasure Parties off er lingerie from the top brands including “DREAMGIRL INTERNATIONAL”, SEVEN til MIDNIGHT, FORPLAY, MUSIC LEGS, “HUSTLER LINGERIE” and so many more. Elegant Pleasure Parties also offer shoes from such prime manufactures as “ELLIE SHOES” and “PLEASER USA”. (http://www.elegantpleasureparties.com)

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“Pirates” in a sweet romantic theme and we even have the sex toys, blindfolds, whips, handcuffs, that completes the party props from the party all the way to the bedroom. “Patriotic” would be a good one around Independence Day with all red white and blue. “Playboy Bunny” would be a awfully nice treat and if you have a problem finding the black leotards for the bunny outfit we sell those too.

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A “Pleasure Me “party would include an all “Girls Night Out” exclusive. “Poke-Her-Night” could be an exclusive couples party as together we all learn about select toys. A Pretty Panty” Parties would be showing off all the pretty and sexy panties that Elegant Pleasure Parties sell. As a lot of time at our parties we have a general showing and display theme though they are times when we would just like to talk or learn, or show-and-tell about a certain item like Dance Poles, Panties, Vibrators, Shoes, Corsets, Glass dildos, etc.

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As we have Birthday and Bachorlette parties we also have Queen for the day or Princess of the night parties, “Toga” parties, and “Tic-Tac-Toe XOXOXO” parties. “Rock-N-Roll” Parties are always fun with one of the ladies acting as the DJ, “Sex and the City”, and even “Stone Aged” theme parties. A favorite theme is “Save a Horse, Ride Your Cowboy”, “She’s a Rider”, and “Western” Styled theme parties. Some others include “Sealed with a Kiss”, “Say Yes to Sex”, Suddenly Single”, Summer Love”, “Sugar-N-Spice”, and even Sexy Appetizers parties.

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Winter Wonderland parties are kind of cool as well as our “Tie-Dye-Hippy” parties. Sometime play a lot of games at our parties and even have game theme parties or guessing game parties like “Who’s Pregnant?” party. At Elegant Pleasure Parties we also sell tattoo sleeves, temporary tattoos and wigs so other parties could be “Wine O and Wig parties, “X-Plosive”, “Screaming-O”, “New Year-New Toy-New You”, and “Valentines” parties.

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Other party themes could include the months of the year or the days of the week or even the seasons. “Jolly January”, “Freaky February”, “Frisky February”, “Month of Romance”, “Stupid Cupid”, “Hot Date”, “Buy-Me-A-Date”, “Super Bowl”, and “World Series” parties for the sports lovers. “March Madness”, Setting the Mood”, “Get Lucky” or “Getting Lucky”, “Fever” parties, and so many more……http://www.elegantpleasureparties.com

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